Why do dark gentlemen date outside their contest when they" Create it"? A West Egyptian female standpoint.
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As a younger black South African feminism, I find myself asking a recurring problem every day another productive dark gentleman introduces us to his partner- a light-skinned beauty or non-black woman:" Why? Why do charcoal guys, especially in locations like Amapiano, Hip-Hop, and activities, therefore typically choose partners who don't seem like their mothers, sisters, or the women who cheered for them before they had a one disciple"? The vision is but common that it could be piece of a rom-com narrative bend, nonetheless, it's not as interesting when you think about it.
This phenomenon is not uniquely South African. But for the purpose of this piece, let's zoom in on Mzansi- where our unique mix of racial dynamics, history, and culture creates a distinct stage for this discussion. It's global. I've seen black American women asking this question too.
COLOURISM AND INTERNALISED RACISM: A TALE AS OLD AS COLONIALISM.
First, BLACK PORNO PHOTOS let's call it what it is neh: internalised racism and colourism. Whether we admit it or not, we all grow up in a world that reinforces these ideas through media, advertising, and even family dynamics. These are leftovers of colonialism and apartheid, systems that taught us lighter skin and Eurocentric features are superior.
So, when a black man "makes it